An article of the British Daily Mail recently published, provides information on what is a behavioral tendency among the British women: the performance of plastic as a form of revenge against the ex-husbands.
This “new beginning” is being dubbed a “revenge surgery”. According to statistics released earlier this year, divorced women today account for a quarter of all plastic surgeries performed in the United Kingdom. And many of this group admit that undergo several surgical procedures to “surprise” or to “attack the honor” of the ex-partner.
In the U.S.A., where all ideas can be marketed, some plastic surgery clinics are already offering packages of divorce for men and women who seek the surgery, after a separation. Despite the benefits of plastic surgery are undeniable, whether before or after a separation, what the academic experts are asking is whether it is correct to take advantage of the misfortune and weakness of others…
“Reinvent yourself”
“It is not only divorced women who come to the clinics of plastic surgery with this desire: to “reinvent themselves”. The unemployed executive, the neglected daughter, the teenager with apparent boobs, the sexagenarian who has just become a widow, a model that can not lose a big job abroad, the Japanese immigrant dissatisfied with her eyelids and many other patients share the same desire: turn a page of life, turning into “another person”, says the plastic surgeon, Ruben Penteado, director of the Center of Integrated Medicine.
Previously, “reinvent yourself” meant to change the hair cut, go on a diet, change the wardrobe. “Today, as plastic surgery are more accessible, they are the first choice from the list of steps ‘to turn it up’ after an unpleasant situation”, explains the doctor.
“We explained, always, to our patients that esthetic surgery has its limitations. A “real change in life” is the result of an inside work. After an enlightening conversation, the patient may even come to the conclusion that he/she do not need to change anything, outside. Good counseling should come before the scalpel. “If I see no reason for the surgery desired by the patient, I say it to him/her”, says Ruben Penteado, member of the Brazilian Society of Plastic Surgery.
A plastic surgery, a new life…
Today, plastic surgery is one of the tools of modern society to raise self-esteem and well-being of the individual, causing him/her to socialize better with their own image. “When this medical specialty began its work, the surgeons did not speak in esthetic, well-being, beauty, because the importance of self-esteem was not widespread in society. “The speech was to repair deformities”, says Penteado.
“The external change is not just volunteerism. Who was born with a big nose or with the ear sharply forward does not consider plastic surgery just a will, but a necessity. Plastic surgery is also important for people after trauma. But in front of the patient that shows the “desire to reinvent him/herself”, the surgeon’s function is to show that ‘normal’ or ‘beautiful’ are subtle, they are changes that are not noticeable, they are not radical changes”, explains the director of the Center of Integrated Medicine.
Amid this process of social valuation and searching of self-esteem shaken by a failed marriage or the loss of a loved one, or even the lack of career opportunities, among many other situations, the plastic surgeon must be aware of excesses and bad indications of surgical procedures, which should always be avoided for the good of the patient.
“Therefore, in addition to good technical training, the plastic surgeon must have a consistent ethical training. If the patient says he/she has a big nose, it is up to him to judge the nose. The physician has to do the professional evaluation and ethical conduct of indicating or not a surgery to this patient”, concluded Ruben Penteado, member of the Brazilian Society of Plastic Surgery.